Its summer snow in the deep blue sea.
I try to touch but it fades away.
It must be a dream I will never get,
just like my love that's crying for you.
If there were something not to change forever,
we could feel it deep in our heart.
Today is over with a million tears, still everyone has a wish to live.
Oh, I do believe everlasting love and destiny to meet you again.
I feel a pain I can hardly stand. All I can do is loving you
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Friday, November 6, 2009
men are like rubber bands, woman are like waves
Dedicate to all the men and woman out there, who are trying so hard to make their relationship work. Thanks for "men are from mars, woman are from venus" book. This is only some of the part in the book and somehow it got me very interested and i wanna share it with you all.
Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling a way, and then getting close again.
Most woman are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.
Woman misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for a different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understand her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her.
Certainly a man pull away for the same reasons, but he will pull away even if she has done nothing wrong. He may love and trust her, and then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.
A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully stretched away, then instantly he will come springing back. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love and intimacy again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs. When a man spring back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away. He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again......
A woman is like wave. When she feels loved her self esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. This crash is temporary. After she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift and she will again feel good about herself. Automatically her wave begins to rise back up.
When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love. This time of bottoming out is a time for emotional housecleaning.
If she has suppressed any negative feeling or denied herself in order to be more loving on the upswing of her wave, then on the downswing she begins to experience these negative feelings and unfulfilled needs. During this down time she especially needs to talk about problems and be heard and understood.
This experience of "going down" is like going down into a dark well. When a woman goes into her "well" she is consciously sinking into her unconscious self, into darkness and diffused feeling. She may suddenly experience a host of unexplained emotions and vague feelings. She may feel hopeless, thinking she is all alone or unsupported. But soon after she reaches the bottom, if she fees loved and supported, she will automatically start to feel better. As suddenly as she may have crashed, she will automatically rise up and again radiate love in her relationship.
A woman's ability to give and receive love in her relationships is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself. When she is not feeling as good about herself, she is unable to be as accepting and appreciative of her partner. At her down times, she tends to be overwhelmed or more emotionally reactive. When her wave hits bottom she is more vulnerable and needs more love. It is crucial that her partner understand what she needs a these times, otherwise he may make unreasonable demands.
Alright that it, no more typing hahaha. There is a lot more stuff about this very uselful book though but i guess you guys have to go and dig some at a second hand book store though cuz the book was published in 2002.
Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning.....
Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling a way, and then getting close again.
Most woman are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.
Woman misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for a different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understand her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her.
Certainly a man pull away for the same reasons, but he will pull away even if she has done nothing wrong. He may love and trust her, and then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.
A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully stretched away, then instantly he will come springing back. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love and intimacy again. Automatically he will be more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs. When a man spring back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away. He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again......
A woman is like wave. When she feels loved her self esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. This crash is temporary. After she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift and she will again feel good about herself. Automatically her wave begins to rise back up.
When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love. This time of bottoming out is a time for emotional housecleaning.
If she has suppressed any negative feeling or denied herself in order to be more loving on the upswing of her wave, then on the downswing she begins to experience these negative feelings and unfulfilled needs. During this down time she especially needs to talk about problems and be heard and understood.
This experience of "going down" is like going down into a dark well. When a woman goes into her "well" she is consciously sinking into her unconscious self, into darkness and diffused feeling. She may suddenly experience a host of unexplained emotions and vague feelings. She may feel hopeless, thinking she is all alone or unsupported. But soon after she reaches the bottom, if she fees loved and supported, she will automatically start to feel better. As suddenly as she may have crashed, she will automatically rise up and again radiate love in her relationship.
A woman's ability to give and receive love in her relationships is generally a reflection of how she is feeling about herself. When she is not feeling as good about herself, she is unable to be as accepting and appreciative of her partner. At her down times, she tends to be overwhelmed or more emotionally reactive. When her wave hits bottom she is more vulnerable and needs more love. It is crucial that her partner understand what she needs a these times, otherwise he may make unreasonable demands.
Alright that it, no more typing hahaha. There is a lot more stuff about this very uselful book though but i guess you guys have to go and dig some at a second hand book store though cuz the book was published in 2002.
Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning.....
Thursday, April 9, 2009
KISS
A KISS IS A PLEASANT REMINDER THAT TWO HEADS ARE BETTER THAN ONE. KISSING IS LIKE DRINKING SALTED WATER, YOU DRINK AND YOUR THIRST INCREASES. A KISS IS SOMETHING YOU CAN NOT GIVE WITHOUT TAKING AND CAN NOT TAKE WITHOUT GIVING. A KISS IS NEVER A BAD KISS UNLESS IT’S AN UNWANTED KISS. I WOULD RATHER HAVE HAD ONE BREATH OF HER HAIR, ONE KISS FROM HER MOUTH, ONE TOUCH OF HER HAND, THAN ETERNITY WITHOUT IT. A KISS THAT IS NEVER TASTED IS FOREVER AND EVER WASTED. WHAT IS KISSES MEAN? KISS ON HAND = I ADORE YOU KISS ON CHEEK = LETS B FRIENDS KISS ON NECK = I WANT YOU KISS ON LIPS = I LOVE YOU KISS ANYWHERE ELES = ….LETS NOT GET CARRIED AWAY! HOLLYWOOD IS A PLACE WHERE THEY WILL PAY YOU A THOUSAND DOLLARS FOR A KISS AND FIFTY CENTS FOR YOUR SOUL. PEOPLE WHO THROW KISSES ARE HOPELESSY LAZY. SOME THINGS I NEVER LEARNED TO LIKE, I DON’T LIKE TO KISS BABIES, THOUGH I DIDN’T MIND KISSING THEIR MOTHERS. A KISS IS A LOVELY TRICK, DESIGNED BY NATURE, TO STOP WORDS WHEN SPEECH BECOMES SUPERFLUOUS. THE FIRST KISS IS STOLEN BY THE MAN, THE LAST IS BEGGED BY THE WOMAN. KISSING IS A MEANS OF GETTING TWO PEOPLE SO CLOSE TOGETHER THAT THEY CANT SEE ANYTING WRONG WITH EACH OTHER. ANY MAN WHO CAN DRIVE SAFELY WHILE KISSING A PRETTY GIRL IS SIMPLY NOT GIVING THE KISS THE ATTENTION IT DESERVES. HIGH HEELS WERE INVENTED BY A WOMAN WHO HAD BEEN KISSED ON THE FOREHEAD. TO A WOMAN THE FIRST KISS IS JUST THE END OF THE BIGINING BUT TO A MAN IT IS THE BEGINNING OF THE END. A MAN SNATCHES THE FIRST KISS, PLEADS FOR THE SECOND, DEMANDS THE THIRD, TAKES THE FOURTH, ACCEPTS THE FIFTH AND ENDURES ALL THE REST. MARRIAGE IS THE MIRACLE THAT TRANSFORMS A KISS FROM A PLEASURE INTO A DUTY. IT TAKES A LOT OF EXPERIENCE FOR A GIRL TO KISS LIKE A BEGINER. STOLEN KISSES REQUIRE AN ACCOMPLICE. “WHERE SHOULD ONE USE PERFUME?” A YOUNG WOMAN ASKED. “WHEREVER ONE WANTS TO BE KISSED,” I SAID. YOU HAVE TO KISS AN AWFUL LOT OF FROGS BEFORE YOU FIND A PRINCE. THE SOUL THAT CAN SPEAK THROUGH THE EYES, CAN ALSO KISS WITH A GAZE. WOMAN STILL REMAMBER THE FIRST KISS AFTER MEN HAVE FORGOTTEN THE LAST. KISSES THAT ARE EASILY OBTAINED ARE EASILY FORGOTTEN. WE LIKE TO RENEW ACQUAINTANCES. WE FRENCEMAN, WE WILL KISS A MAN WE HAVEN’T SEEN FOR FIVE YEARS OR A GIRL WE HAVEN’T SEEN FOR FIVE MINUITE. I WASN’T KISSING HER, I WAS WHISPERING INTO HER MOUTH.
thanks to: FULLSTOP PUBLISHING LIMITED PARTNERSHIP, YOU GUYS REALLY REALLY DID EAPLAINED A LOT ABOUT KISS IN THIS BOOK HAHA.
thanks to: FULLSTOP PUBLISHING LIMITED PARTNERSHIP, YOU GUYS REALLY REALLY DID EAPLAINED A LOT ABOUT KISS IN THIS BOOK HAHA.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
24 March 2009
17:58pm the time is showing on my computer, long hour working since i got here at work at 7:25am every morning for the last 2-3 month. The birds is not even singing by the time i got up at 5:00am, nothing actually wake me up from bed perhaps is a habit of me doing that every single day. I rent a room staying by myself, catch the underground train for 25 min to work, walk about 20 min to reach my work place from the train station, life been like that ever since i started to work here since last Nov 2008.
At 18:30pm everyday after work, I'm heading to the fitness next to my working place, life been like that ever since as well for being a membership there for the past 5-6 month, routine life? boring perhaps?....
I'm not so sure why I'm i writing this to let all the random blogger or my friends know about it, maybe i wanted to let it out and let the world know what i have been doing everyday....
I turn my head to the window, looking at the sun that is about to say good bye to us, the sun light is fading away behind the sky high building in front of it but It got noting to worry about because tomorrow it will rise again and may look even more beautiful than today.
I missed someone who is very far away, i wanted to hold her in my arms again, feeling of her warm and soft body touching against my body. Can this very last warm sun light of today sending this warm feeling from me to her......
love you....still
At 18:30pm everyday after work, I'm heading to the fitness next to my working place, life been like that ever since as well for being a membership there for the past 5-6 month, routine life? boring perhaps?....
I'm not so sure why I'm i writing this to let all the random blogger or my friends know about it, maybe i wanted to let it out and let the world know what i have been doing everyday....
I turn my head to the window, looking at the sun that is about to say good bye to us, the sun light is fading away behind the sky high building in front of it but It got noting to worry about because tomorrow it will rise again and may look even more beautiful than today.
I missed someone who is very far away, i wanted to hold her in my arms again, feeling of her warm and soft body touching against my body. Can this very last warm sun light of today sending this warm feeling from me to her......
love you....still
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Love is all around..~~)
Sometimes its so hard to make a decision on having a relationship with anyone, specially someone that is come from a different background. Well I getting to know one girl about 2 years ago in New Zealand while i was studying at the university, is kinda like a destiny you know ( do you believe in destiny, cuz i do). Why I'm saying something about destiny? i mean i have been in New Zealand for almost 6 years until i met this girl, I've never been with anyone for a lonnn...nng ( its really long okie!!) times until suddenly i saw her at the beginning of a new semester at our school. Hahaha a group of a new transfer student from Malaysia, well i said to myself what the hell man its just another group of a student from Malaysia so what which we always have that anyway every years in our school.
I think i saw her for the first time at the Video class as i was preparing some paper works on the new semester enrolment, from then till about mid April we kinda start to talk. I hardly remember the first words that i spoke to her though, but the very very first conversation that we had was in a auction room. It was the toys collection auction from Prof. Hazel, i was there first waiting to collecting my won items then you were there as well at the corner of the door beside the printer!! ( to be honest, my heart was pumping so heavily then). haha we never spoke a single words till now, "hi, are you Tiffany?" i asked her, lots of books in her arms then it all suddenly dropped!!. I kinda see how clumsy she was but it kinda give me a first impression and is kinda cute.
She invited me for a Kinky Bunny party...... then you know what the rest is magic..~^). Well it never been so easy being with this girl, but i never give up on her.
Its actually been 2 years today since we decided to start this relationship together, did i tell you that her name is Tiffany. haha from then until now the feeling that i have for her is never change you know, even how stubborn she was, how different we are and how hard it is for us to go through a lot of good or bad experiences together but i think that is the prize I'm getting to be in love with someone and i think it all worth it at the end of the day.
Nothing to give her in this anniversary accept more love from me...to you hahaha^^..Happy 2 years anniversary Tiffany.....
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This is a very last picture that we took together in May 2008
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